Telling Others It's All About You
Published on August 31, 2009 By KFC Kickin For Christ In Religion

Globablly, we are heading south at a rapid rate of speed and nothing is going to stop us this time.  I believe the time is close.  Believers and non believers alike are sensing something is about to happen all over the world.  Christ said in the last days the love of many would wax cold.  I'm sensing that today. 

For years in our country, we've watched silently as our freedoms erode around us as link by link the shackles are being clamped on.  We are no longer considered the land of the brave and the free we once were.  We are a society of over indulgent, self seeking, complaining spoiled brats who want nothing else but to get our own way.  It's all about me and what I want.  It's all about now.   Our excessive living has weakened us, not made us stronger.  We have become dependant on material things while we abuse people who dare get in our way. 

It should be the other way around.  We should use things and cherish people but I'm afraid we have been duped into thinking it's ok to cherish things and use people. 

Look at the scandals all around us.   A day doesn't go by and yet another leader or hero falls into this trap of excessive living bringing himself down as well as those around him.  Presidents, Governors, Preachers, Coaches, Football players and the list goes on.  Those who should be leading us are stealing from us instead whether it be in the form of money, adultery or even our trust.  Those in leadership positions who should be taking care by being good examples are instead no more than goats in sheep's clothing seeking to devour any who get in their way.   Whatever happened to a good name should be protected and is worth more than gold and silver? 

Last week in just a normal conversation with two strangers I met at an open house, I could see how brainwashed we've become in the  "it's all about me society."

We were talking and one thing led to another and I mentioned the fact that my husband and I were at a crossroads trying to make a decision on our next move.  That may mean packing up and moving out of our beautiful new home.  Yes, we are very comfortable and thought this would be it.  Yes, we have it made in the shade as some would say but we are not quite content because we are waiting on God's next marching orders wondering if we should sell and move along.  I'm not totally fond of this idea, but if it's God, who am I to say no?

I told the two ladies that it quite possibly is God moving us out of our comfort zone to give it all up for others. If so, we need to be willing to go.   

Well one of these ladies with a bit of a scornful look on her face said "well you have to do what is right for you first."  I kindly explained to her that the decision we're mulling would indeed be a sacrifice but one we're willing to make if we know it's from God.  The best place to be in all the world is the center of God's will.  I told her that the way I look at it from a Chrisitian POV is that it's God first, me second.  To serve God means to serve others before yourself.   She had no reply but her companion agreed with this outlook. 

Think about it.  What a different place this world would be if we all took the time to put others ahead of ourselves.  Instead of stealing from one another, we would be giving.  Instead of committing adultery on our spouses we would be honoring our commitments, strengthening our families instead of destroying them.  Instead of taking advantage of others we would rather choose to be great examples for those in our pathway instead of bringing shame to our community, our state and our country by violating that trust. 

We've been sold a soggy bill of goods thinking that we can be happy by heaping upon ourselves more and more and more stuff stepping on others to get it.  When in fact, the real joy comes in helping others and being "other minded" rather than self seeking. 

Yesterday the sermon at church was on doing ALL things without complaining or grumbling.  We read this:

"Do everything without complaining or arguing in that you may become blameless and harmless without fault in a crooked and depraved generation..."  Philip 2:14-15

The world being crooked means it's out of proper alignment.  The word crooked comes from the Greek word "Skolios" where we get scoliosis from.  It means "curved, bent, winding" and metaphoricaly means "crooked, perverse, unjust" or "unscrupulous; dishonest" and can also be translated "warped." 

Get the picture?   Doesn't this explain our world today?  It's out of alignment.  As a Christian I have to ask myself, am I helping the world for the better or for the worse? 

So we have to ask ourselves, what kind of advertisement are we?  There's nothing like an improper road sign.  It can potentially have devestating effects.  It can give the wrong direction.  

When we complain and grumble,  aren't we showing a negative attitude and rejecting God's will?  We need to keep that in mind when we hold up our sign of complaining in front of others.  Aren't we giving the wrong message?  Doesn't God say to be blameless and harmless for the sake of others?  For the sake of the world? 

Yes.  Afterall when it's all said and done, we have to live with ourselves and the directions we gave.  One day we will meet our creator and all becomes visible in the light.  Everything is made visible...every little thing. 

It's time we make sure the road sign we're holding is pointing in the right direction. 

 

 


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on Sep 02, 2009

I can definitely relate to this. I am our of sync with the culture and I should be. I'm a Christian with a Christian world view. Makes sense.

Once again, you miss the point. Us in the West are out of sync with the East. You're not supposed to be out of sync with your own culture.

on Sep 02, 2009

You're not supposed to be out of sync with your own culture.

First off we are not nearly as out of date with the East as we once were.  Obviously the East has made themselves quite comfortable in the West now including the U.S. and Europe. 

and yes we as Christians ARE certainly to be out of synch with even our own culture.  This world is not our forever home so we are not to get too comfortable in it. 

Paul wrote to the Romans that we are not to be conformed to the pattern of this world but to be transformed by the renewing of our minds.  In other words like I said about the world being crooked?  We are to straighten up and fly right as God intended us. 

First the Jews and then the Christians were told to be a peculiar people.  That means different.  We are called out to be different and that alone makes us out of sync with our world here. 

on Sep 02, 2009

I don't want to be in sync with a culture that thinks things today is just business as usual.

on Sep 02, 2009

and yes we as Christians ARE certainly to be out of synch with even our own culture. This world is not our forever home so we are not to get too comfortable in it. Paul wrote to the Romans that we are not to be conformed to the pattern of this world but to be transformed by the renewing of our minds. In other words like I said about the world being crooked? We are to straighten up and fly right as God intended us. First the Jews and then the Christians were told to be a peculiar people. That means different. We are called out to be different and that alone makes us out of sync with our world here.

Religions have become bullshit.

on Sep 02, 2009

I don't want to be in sync with a culture that thinks things today is just business as usual.

So you're a counter-culture anarchist?

on Sep 02, 2009

If there is a god growing angrier by the day, i sure hope hes the not that brutal dude from the old testament.

on Sep 03, 2009

If there is a god growing angrier by the day, i sure hope hes the not that brutal dude from the old testament.

i'm kinda hopin for bacchus & aphrodite myself.

on Sep 03, 2009

I can definitely relate to this. I am our of sync with the culture and I should be. I'm a Christian with a Christian world view. Makes sense

You took a small part of the entire quote out of context to praise yourself. You should be ashamed of yourself.

on Sep 03, 2009

I'm a Christian with a Christian world view

Isn't that another kind of globalization?

We've been way above for too long and we have to be brought low first to be on a level playing ground with the rest of the world

Turn back Evolution and progress? Be just as stuck in the dark ages as they are? I've never heard such bullshit. They should catch up with us. You're right you ARE out of sync, and you're a pathetic, small-minded imbecile.

Congratulations. You're proving what I've suspected for years. All Christians are stupid.

on Sep 03, 2009

I don't want to be in sync with a culture that thinks things today is just business as usual.

exactly.  This same culture has their ladder leaning against a very shaky wall with a  crumbling foundation. 

If there is a god growing angrier by the day, i sure hope hes the not that brutal dude from the old testament.

Well sorry to say he's going to be worse than that.  Have you read Revelation?  God is all about mercy, grace, forgiveness, patience and love.  He's giving mankind every single opportunity to turn around but there's going to be a day when even God says...enough! 

All Christians are stupid.

and everytime you throw mud on me by calling me names you can't help but dirty yourself.  Why resort to this?  Is it because you have nothing better to say? 

Please don't come around here anymore with this type of attitude. 

 

on Sep 03, 2009

everytime you throw mud on me by calling me names you can't help but dirty yourself.

I've been dirty for years and proud of it.

Is it because you have nothing better to say?

I did.

on Sep 03, 2009

Hey KFC, just passin by but wanted to respond. 

I'm not surprised there is more violence, more hate, just MORE.  Aside from the faith perspective there is a practical reason for it. 

There are more people today, and the population continues to grow.  By sheer statistical analysis alone, the number of just about everything should be going up, up, up.

I think as places become more crowded, as resources become more scare, not only will we lose more and more of our rights, but we will see more and more violence and crime.

I think about it like this, if you are in a 10 x 10 room with one other person, your personal freedoms are more abundant than if that room has 100 people in it.  If it has 100 people in it, there will need to be more legislation to cover everyone's rights, because the odds of one jerk making everyone miserable are increased by the number of people in the room.

I think this is one of the reasons big cities tend to be more liberal.  When you are packed into a city, living with thousands, and millions of other people, it requires much more regulation than smaller towns.  For instance, if 5% of the people want to spit on the sidewalk in a small town, its gross, but it doesn't necessarily affect the quality of life of the other people living there.

Now imagine NYC, and if only 5% of the population there spit on the sidewalk everyday..still gross, but suddenly more people are not only doing it, but being affected by it.  It could easily become a public health issue.

As our population increases, so too will these stories.

 

 

 

on Sep 03, 2009

Agreed, some people should just stick to reading and not commenting.

You were saying?

on Sep 04, 2009

think as places become more crowded, as resources become more scare, not only will we lose more and more of our rights, but we will see more and more violence and crime.

I agree Tova.  In fact your analysis is one of the reasons we took our kids out of a large H.S. and put them into a much smaller H.S.  We figured the less kids, the less troubles. 

So yes, the faith and practical aspects here go hand in hand.  The tower of Babal comes to mind also.  God originally told the people to scatter and populate the earth.  Instead they congregated, staying together and got in trouble together as well.   Maybe it's that whole gang mentality thing. 

What we're seeing in our modern age is this congregating again only this time it's called globalization and it's going to, from a faith perspective, be detrimental to the masses.    Only they have no idea what's about to happen. 

 

on Sep 04, 2009

What we're seeing in our modern age is this congregating again only this time it's called globalization and it's going to, from a faith perspective, be detrimental to the masses. Only they have no idea what's about to happen.

That's the irony of it all if you think about it.

Go forth and multiply in your fallen state.

About globalization.  That too has its own irony.  Once we hit critical mass as far as populations go, it will be necessary for survival. 

On a smaller level just look at California and the issues they are having with water.  We can look at them and say, oh well, sorry bout your luck.  But 1/3 of America's produce comes from land that now stands like a dust bowl because the pumps were turned off that fed the irrigation canals to save the smelt (small fish, endangered species, pumps suck up and kill larvae).  We're going to be forced as a nation to import more food.

And as we continue to let green fields be developed for suburbs, factories, shopping, etc, our own farmland capacity in this country is shrinking as our population increases.  (Again ironic when so many cities, like Dayton Ohio have tons of empty homes, factories, shopping malls, etc) already built, with the infrastructure to support it, and ready for occupancy.

Reduced farm land, especially in areas that get enough rain (where irrigation isn't always necessary)....will require a "global" market of food to sustain us.

It's already on the way.  All we can hope to do is manage it.

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