It's Anything But Comfortable
Published on June 9, 2008 By KFC Kickin For Christ In Blogging

We bought the wrong mattress. 

In April I wrote about buying a mattress.  We came home with a latex mattress hearing only good things about them and decided to give it a try.  The, now we know, new employee seemed to lead us in that direction saying we would be covered by a comfort exchange if we didn't like it.  So we bought it. 

Well I didn't think we'd have a problem.   We've slept all over the country in many motels over the years with very little complaints.  I thought I could sleep on anything.  I was wrong. 

Well it only took a week to realize this is not going to work.  I could not get comfortable.  I tossed and turned and many nights got up to sleep in the guest bedroom, preferring my old bed.  

Is it the pillowtop?  Is it the latex?  Is it because it's a softer bed?  I don't know.   But my back is telling me it's a no go.

So we went back within a week of purchasing and the employee said we'd have to pay an extra $350 to exchange for another.  $350?  What?  For just having this mattress for a week? 

So we called the owner.  The owner was short with my husband over the phone.  The news got worse.  He said this particular bed was not covered by the comfort exchange at all.  We told him that's not what his empoyee told us at the time of purchase.  We never would have bought it with no recourse.  So he said he'd call the employee and get back to us. 

An hour later, Mike, the employee called and apologized.  He said he made an error.  He didn't know this particular brand was not covered as he was fairly new to the company but the boss, George, would honor the comfort exchange because we were told otherwise.  Mike said he told the boss we were very nice people and didn't hollar or anything.  We were glad that we kept our composure hearing this. 

So knowing we were under the 60 day comfort exchange policy I decided to keep at it for a few more weeks to see if I could get accustomed.  Some nights I did ok and other nights it was getting up after being restless.  When we went to VA and Chicago I slept very nicely in the hotels and felt great.  I dreaded going back home to sleep.  So I knew we had to exchange this mattress. 

So after another week or so we went back to the store to exchange.  We were met by what we found out to be a part owner whose name was Simon.  I figured out real quick he was a Christian and we had a nice conversation before settling on another mattress.  We explained the situation and he helped us buy another bed for only $100 plus tax more. We agreed on keeping the box spring we had and just exchange the mattress.  Sounded reasonable.  So we thought that wasn't too bad.  We were relieved it was over with. 

Until we got home later that afternoon and got a call from Simon.  He said he talked to George and George said we could not exchange this mattress.  He told Simon he thought he made himself clear to us.  I explained to Simon that Mike the empoyee called us and said otherwise after talking with George.  Simon didn't know what to say other than to say he was canceling our charge we had made earlier that day.

So we talked with a friend that night and he brought up the fact  that when we signed the charge slip it was a binding contract and they had no choice but to honor it.  They could not get out of it like this. 

We got home late that night and had a message on the machine from Simon again.  It seems as though George had a change of heart and for us to come to the store the next day. 

So we did.  Yesterday after church we went in.  Simon explained Goerge got us mixed up with another customer.  So we're not the only ones it seems.  Anyhow the deal is we'd have to pay an original extra $350 totally replacing both box spring and mattress and they would waive the delivery charge of $50.  Still not happy with this whole thing we told Simon we were legally in the right to force them to honor that charge from the day before for $100. 

He was quiet, not knowing what to say.  We told him we would not press the issue because we just aren't like that and we'd pay the extra money but was really not happy about how this whole thing was handled.   He handed us a credit slip to sign off on the $100 and made a new bill for $350 plus tax which was almost $400 extra just to exchange a mattress.  So we actually paid over $1100 for  a regular no frills mattress we could have probably got for about $699 originally.   We let him know we did not have to sign off but would do so to our loss.   I think he was relieved when we signed the slip. 

After all was said and done, Simon, shaking his head, commented on the fact that we were very sweet about all this not yelling and screaming even though we made it obvious we were not happy campers.  We told him it would do no good to rant and rave and that we were, as Christians, believers in the whole sowing and reaping principle and that George as the business owner should be worried. 

Simon completely undersood and as only a quarter owner (interesting)  felt helpless.  He  definitely was on our side and was hoping that George would change his mind and be more reasonable.  He said business hadn't been very good (no kidding!) and that was part of it.   He also understood that we could not reccomend their company to others and felt helpless in being able to make it otherwise. 

So all in all this comfort exchange was anything but a comfort exchange and I've learned alot in the process.  I think Simon has as well. 

 

 

 


Comments
on Jun 09, 2008
I like the way you handled it. I don't know if I could've kept from pressing the issue.
on Jun 09, 2008
Wow, that is so wrong on so many levels, it boggles the mind. But, if you don't mind I am going to be honest and say that while I understand and respect your decision, I would have not done the same.

It is my belief that because we allow people to get away with, forgive my French, "screwing us", that it continues to happen. We have a saying every time someone talks about selling something either on eBay or Craigslist.com, "there's always someone dumb enough to pay for it". Now, I am not saying you are dumb, please dont misunderstand. What I am saying is that many people who sell stuff always depend on other peoples ignorance to get as much from them as possible and just when you think they are feeling bad, that's when you never realize how wrong you are. In this case, you were smarter than the average bear, yet they still got away with it. I am a firm believer that if caught, people should pay the price for their crimes, what ever is suitable as punishment.

But that's just me. Sure, one should always do their homework before going out and buying something, but no one is perfect and you can't always see the trick before you fall for it.
on Jun 09, 2008

What a crap crappy Mc. Crappington.

My husband would never have let this go.  He wouldn't raise his voice or anything, but he'd make them honor what they said when we purchased.

They should be bound by what the employee told you at the time of purchase, even if he was wrong.  Anything less if selling under false pretenses...after all they could sell all their stuff this way and then not honor what the sales associate  said because he made a "mistake."

What I probably wouldn't do is tell someone I am only doing this (letting you rip me off) because I'm a Christian.  I don't believe Christ commands us to be door mats, or victims to unscrupulous business practices.

 

on Jun 09, 2008

I don't believe Christ commands us to be door mats, or victims to unscrupulous business practices.

I know what you're saying and I tend to think like that as well but Christ did say if they ask for your cloak give it to them and so on.  Remember the scripture that says to render to Ceasar what is Ceasar's?  Remember who Ceasar was?  The Roman Government who was well known for unethical business practices.  God also made it quite clear that he is the one to receive vengeance not us.  So we'll just leave it in God's hands.  Let's see what happens. 

Well George did let us exchange for the comfort exchange even though technically we didn't buy a mattress covered by the comfort exchange. The only reason he allowed this was because Mike the employee messed up in telling us we were covered.   So he did allow this but what gets me is that the other owner Simon made an agreement with us for a $100 only to be nullified by George and that's just not right.  He should have let it go.  A done deal. 

Besides all this after only using a mattress for less than a week it doesn't seem to make sense you have to pay full retail price (so the diff was 350) for another mattress to exchange. 

I'm just hoping this next mattress likes my back. 

 

on Jun 10, 2008
I don't believe Christ commands us to be door mats, or victims to unscrupulous business practices.


I believe it says to turn the other cheek, and to walk two miles when a soldier asks you to carry his pack for one mile, and if someone takes you to court for something, pay him double what he's asking.

Why not? It's only money and stuff.
on Jun 10, 2008
Why not? It's only money and stuff.


That would make sense if we didnt live in a society where money is a must. You need money to eat, to have a place to live, to raise a child, simply to survive. Otherwise you would be homeless which is not anywhere near basic living.

I don't work hard and get paid what others think I should get as oppose to getting paid a decent wage, having the govt take 25% of my check in taxes, paying another 25 in taxes on bills, necessities and sometimes even food, paying for this and paying for that just to go and give it to people who live off of praying on other peoples ignorance. I may believe in God, but I don't think he wanted you to be stupid either. It's good to help and give, it's not good to feed the criminal by letting them get away with a crime just because God said turn the other cheek. I dont think thats what he meant.
on Jun 10, 2008
know what you're saying and I tend to think like that as well but Christ did say if they ask for your cloak give it to them and so on


I believe it says to turn the other cheek, and to walk two miles when a soldier asks you to carry his pack for one mile, and if someone takes you to court for something, pay him double what he's asking.


We're also commanded to be good stewards.

KFC did your church give money to every single person who asked? Even when that person was church hopping and asking at every church in town? (I already know the answer, I remember you blogging about it, and the answer is no.)

Why not? Given the reasons above you shoulda opened up your coffers and told them to help themselves. It's just money and stuff.  

If someone asks for money straight up or help, yeah I can see using those scriptures, but when they are in essence stealing it through bad business practices/dishonesty its another thing all together. I submit by allowing them to succeed in ripping you off, you are in essence aiding and abetting their thievery so they can continue to do it to others.

Aren't we commanded to love others as ourselves? Why would we want other people to be ripped off?

KFC, remember your vacation and the guy you didn't help out the first night for fear he would spend money on booze or drugs, I can't remember? But were able to feed the second? That is taking scripture in context.

Rendering unto Rome, with a picture of Caesar on the coin, that was about taxes wasn't it? And the underlying lesson, obedience to the governing authority that God has allowed.

I don't think the scriptures either of you quoted/referred to here, fit this situation.

If you didn't want to fight about it, that's one thing. But I don't think telling someone you are letting them rip you off because you follow Christ is commanded, or even DESIRED, by God.

If it were, as a body we'd never have a place to meet, never have money in the coffers to do anything in the name of Christ because all the thieves would have it.

on Jun 11, 2008

We're also commanded to be good stewards.

yes and you know what?  I think this extra few hundred that would have been in our pocket may have been better than buying a case of tracts.  I think God will take this money and this experience and turn it into something good (I'm thinking about Joseph here).  Simon, who is a Christian will relate all he saw in us and about the situation to George.  Simon even said before we left..."perhaps George will change his mind."  Who knows maybe it has nothing to do with George and Simon will be the one who will be encouraged by our "anger under control."   Simon said the fact he was giving us a free (second) delivery was something. 

KFC, remember your vacation and the guy you didn't help out the first night for fear he would spend money on booze or drugs, I can't remember? But were able to feed the second? That is taking scripture in context.

sorta right.  It was the same person, Sarah, both times.  We felt bad refusing her thinking about drugs/booze but then God gave us a very odd second chance to meet her once again and this time we bought her a meal. 

Rendering unto Rome, with a picture of Caesar on the coin, that was about taxes wasn't it? And the underlying lesson, obedience to the governing authority that God has allowed.

Yes, but you first mentioned you wouldn't pay because they were unethical and I was merely pointing out so too was the Roman Government yet we were still commanded to pay our taxes.  God will take care of the crooks and will avenge us. 

If you didn't want to fight about it, that's one thing. But I don't think telling someone you are letting them rip you off because you follow Christ is commanded, or even DESIRED, by God.

First off we didn't tell anyone we were letting them rip us off because we are Christians.  The guy we were dealing with (Simon) directly was a Christian and he felt terrible.  Being only a one fourth owner he didn't have much say it seemed.  Simon only found out we were Christians because I asked him if he was due to the radio station he was listening to.  George the owner, a non-Christian, only talked to us once over the phone.  He wasn't pleasant to talk with.  Our faith never came up at all with George unless Simon said something. 

 

 

on Jun 11, 2008
I think my discernment cannister is running low.
on Jun 11, 2008
sorta right. It was the same person, Sarah, both times. We felt bad refusing her thinking about drugs/booze but then God gave us a very odd second chance to meet her once again and this time we bought her a meal.


Oh yes I remember now, it was a woman. Sorry bout that.

I know you all handled it as you felt led, so I will stop arm chair Bible backing...heh.



on Jun 11, 2008
I don't think there is a right or wrong here really. I think we did on instinct what we thought was the right thing even if it wasn't advantageous to our pocketbook. I don't know how much effect we have and may never know. But I do know two diff people Mike and Simon meeting us on three separate occasions admitted and commented on the fact they really expected us to blow a gasket. And we didn't and instead went the extra mile.

I think my discernment cannister is running low.


so happy to see you back by the way Jay. What do you mean about this?