I have a new daughter!
Yes. It's about time. I've been wanting a girl like.....forever!!
She's almost seven and is from Uganda. Her name is Ellen. She lives with her mother, one brother and two sisters. Her real mother struggles to provide for the family. Ellen likes to play games and helps her family by sweeping floors. She does not go to school yet.
When I was at the Woman of Faith conference, they hosted World Vision looking for sponsors in communities severely affected by the HIV/AIDS crisis. I immediately wished to adopt or sponsor a child to help, in this case Ellen, to provide even just the very basic needs. They said at the conference by helping one child the whole family benefits.
I decided to pick a girl with the same birthday month as me. I found out while at the table that I could pick even the same birthday as myself if I chose to. They had dates all covered. But I saw Ellen first just lying there on the table and didn't look at any others. So I got to thinking. My friend Laurie has a daughter who always wished for a sibling. So after I got all signed up and sponsored for Ellen I went to find Laurie. I told her what I just did and knowing that she was supposed to pick something up to bring back home for her 10 year old daughter, I suggested she bring home a sister.
She looked at me, eyes wide open with tears starting to spill over. She knew instantly that was it. That's what she would bring home to her only child. She immediately went back out to the concourse with me to pick up her daughter. She chose her 10 year old's exact birthday. She even put all the paperwork in Daniele's name so her daughter can receive the mail herself. She came back with a little girl named Elene from Kenya. She stood at the table, with the paperwork in her hand, looking at this little girl and just bawled. Boy, was she a mess.
So we went back and talked with Jodi. Jodi just learned moments before that she would become a grandmother for the second time. She had two sons and one grandson. She was finally going to get her daughter. Her son was having a girl!! She saw Laurie and I with pictures of our newly sponsored daughters and was moved. She also went back out to the table picked out a little girl to sponsor.
Wow. In less than 10 minutes we have changed the lives of three little girls. So I didn't want to stop there. I went back and found two more friends. These two are roommates and great pals. They do everything together. So I told them what we had just done. I suggested if they wanted, they could split the monthly charge and sponsor a child together. That's exactly what they did. They also chose to sponsor a little girl.
Word begin to spread around our little group and others also decided to take on a sponsorship. I'm not sure now how many we're doing total but it's quite a bit. One of the gals had us beat. She already had a little boy and girl she had been sponsoring for a few years. I already feel led to take on another one. I'm thinking right now that for every grandchild I get, one more child I will sponsor in their memory.
I found out that thru World Vision 87% of the money goes directly to the child and his/her family. Some people do Compassion which also is a very reputable organization and their allotment is 78% only because World Vision has quite a bit of sponsors to back them helping to keep their % as high as they have it.
We can even visit our child if we ever wish to. We can't send packages but we can send stickers and flat things like cards, stamps, pictures etc in a certain sized envelope. This $35 a month makes a world of difference over there. Our sponsorship commitment will help provide these children and their community with the assistance they need to save a generatiion from the AIDS crisis and meet their needs to minimize the impact of AIDS in their community through tangible prevention and care programs.
Now I have to wait to receive the paperwork with Ellen's first letter to me. This will take about four weeks. Then the relationship will begin. I'm going to purchase a notebook and will holepunch every piece of correspondence in the order received. Maybe some day we can visit Uganda but for now I'm just going to be happy getting acquainted with my new daughter, Ellen.