May He Now Rest In Peace
Published on May 15, 2007 By KFC Kickin For Christ In Current Events
Over the last seven years I've spent alot of time at Liberty University. For those who don't know, this is the University that Jerry founded in 1971 in Lynchburg, VA. Before 1999 I had not even heard of this University. I came to the quick realization this was the biggest Christian University in the whole world. I also liked what I saw when I visited this campus. So did my son.

It all started in 1999 when my son was looking for a good Christian University. I barely knew who Falwell was. I mean I knew he was into the political scene, but most of the particulars escaped me while I was busy raising my kids and not really paying much attention. He didn't impress me much is what I remember most........ what little I did know about him that is.

While my eldest was there he started telling me the true stories about Jerry. The stuff the media doesn't report, like the time Jerry saw a kid with no shoes so he took his own and gave it to him or the lady that worked with my other son at Applebee's in Lynchburg and was approaching her thirties but never could afford college. Someday she was going to go. Jerry gave her a full scholarship right there and then while she was waiting on him. My son called me when this happened. Or the time a young boy threw a baseball into Jerry's yard by accident. Jerry tracked him down, signed the ball with the inscription that the ball was worth a full four year paid education when this boy was ready to go to college whether Jerry was dead or alive.

My son would tell me how much these kids loved Jerry. How Jerry was seen often tooling around in his big black SUV sometimes pretending to try to run them over until they had to hop a curb to get away from that menacing black SUV while they walked around campus. In fact it did happen to my son. He would see how the media would distort by cutting and pasting Jerry's comments to fit their agenda about him.

When my son graduated in 2005, Jerry was in poor health. He was advised not to give out the diplomas as he had done every year. He did it anyway. He sat on a stool and wouldn't you know had his picture taken with every single student. We're talking roughly 2500-3000 students. When Jerry came down the aisle the silly string came out. He loved it. I'm not sure but I think he had a can himself under his robe. My son's picture with Jerry is sitting on top of my TV unit even now.

He wasn't some cold son-of-a-gun never to be seen hidden away in some lofty office on campus somewhere. No, he was out and about loving to be around the college kids and always available for them. He was very approachable. He was everywhere. From what I understand he was a very busy man always in the thick of things.

I saw this stuff up close and personal. The ones bitching about him I would dearly love to ask a question. Have you ever met or seen him in person or are you letting the very poor sound bites of the media sway your opinion of this great man of vision?

I have a friend, now in her 50's, who was at Liberty in 1973, two years after it was first founded. She said they had nothing then. Nothing. The students were scrubbing walls and floors and helping this college get a start. Jerry had a vision. He would get up there and tell these very few students back then, that someday they would have a big University on Liberty Mountain for their own kids to come to. Someday they would own the mountain. He would go on to describe his dream. He outlined his plan. Thirty five years later this dream is a reality.

She called me today and said people have no idea the vision he had back then. He had a dream to have children come from all over the world to get a good Christian education for as cheap as they can afford to give it. He made them promises that he kept. He never went back on his promises. He was a man of his word. My friend's granddaughter and grandson are headed to Liberty this coming fall. She hasn't seen it since she was there in the 70's and said to me "I can't wait. I am so excited to be stepping onto Liberty Mountain to visibly see Dr. Falwell's dream for all of us."

I was sitting in the new Thomas Road Baptist Church two weeks ago. I was fortunate to see one of his last two sermons. I sat right near the front. It's funny but his sermon was about being indestructable as a Christian. He spoke about the myth that his pulpit was bullet proof. He laughed as he assured us it most certainly was not. Even though he's had many death threats against him thru the years he knew God was with him. When God was ready, he'd take him home. Well God allowed him see the 50th anniversary of Thomas Road and the moving into this brand new church right there on Liberty Mountain next to his beloved University last July.

I was able to go up to the stage afterwards and stand near him but never did get a chance to talk with him as he was busy with another. So I turned and left. I wanted to thank him for following his vision and the word of God. He truly was a man of deep conviction and love for God. He was doing what God had put him there to do. I mean, how many famous people of his stature can you literally go up and shake his hand and talk to? He was very approachable and friendly. To me he looked big and strong, a bit pale but he always looks pale to me. He was cheerful and encouraging. He baptized many babies that day. The parents and grandparents lined up out the door for the chance for this man to put his hand on their babies and pray over each and every one of them. I did notice he referred to his impending death more than once tho. I wondered if he knew how close it was? He spoke about how his wife was all set so she wouldn't have to marry the next fella that came down the pike. Weird.

Sure he made some dumb statements over the years. Who doesn't make mistakes or say the wrong thing once in a while? He was a man that spoke up, stood up and acted on what he believed was right. Sometimes he did so by speaking without thinking. He took a stand. The left hated him because he was a man of action. This action, mostly directed at them, infuriated them whether it be by churning out strong Christian believers that would someday do battle against them or by diviing into the political arena by creating venues such as the Moral Majority to help take them down. He had their number and they knew it. They hated him because he exposed their lies and hypocricy.

This last trip to Liberty, two weeks ago, I spent in awe as I walked the campus. I had seen many changes over these last seven years. I likened the metarmorphosis of this great place to our great country. Just as I'm in awe of how far we've come in just these last two hundred years comparing our country to countries of old, so too was I in awe of what is still a very young University. Sean Hannity echoed my same thoughts today on his radio program. He just returned from Liberty as well and compared this great campus to the likes of Notre Dame even. I have no idea. I've never been to Notre Dame.

I know Jerry is celebrating now. He gave his life and his all for the God he loved. Because of him many young people are able to go to a great University and worship their God with other students and be educated simultaneously. I love that each class is started with prayer. I love to see the young people, thousands of them at Campus Church with heads bowed and arms around each other as they pray together or with their arms held high as they sing praises to God.

Most of all, I love the fine young men that my sons have turned out to be, and I credit Liberty University as helping to undo what the public schools had tried so hard to do. I , along with many parents of thousands of students, and post grads are secretly thanking God tonight for this man who dared to swim upstream and follow his God in the face of much adversity.

"You choose whom you shall serve, but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord"-Joshua.
"With the world on the brink of pandemonium, it is our responsibility to point people – no matter their heritage, ethnicity or religion – to the one and only solution, Jesus Christ."

-- The Rev. Dr. Jerry Falwell, May 12, 2007








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Comments
on May 15, 2007
Thanks, KFC. I didn't know Jerry Falwell, but it bugged me to see so many celebrating his death. I've said some things just as abrasive as what Jerry said; will these same people be celebrating when I die? It says a lot, in my opinion.

The only "Jerry" (well, Liberty University) story I heard was from 1991. I was friends with a young man who worked overnight at the convenience store across from where I worked. I was dirt poor in them days, and this fella would give me the food he had to pull because it had sat under the heat lamp. He would spend all night poring over the correspondence courses he was taking from Liberty University. This guy had spent a lot of money at one of those "diploma mill" places that put their ads up on city busses, and his degree wasn't worth the paper it was printed on. Liberty University was the only university willing to give him credit for the actual course work he'd done with that place. I thought that was pretty cool in and of itself.

Over the years, I've said things as inflammatory as anything Jerry said. Will the same people celebrate when I die? Will they really let a difference of political and religious belief form the basis for their telling my wife that I'm burning in Hell? I hope not; I'd like to hope they remember me for the good I've done, not the bad.
on May 15, 2007
Luke 6:45

"The good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and the evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For out of the overflow of his heart his mouth speaks."
on May 16, 2007
Thanks, KFC. I didn't know Jerry Falwell, but it bugged me to see so many celebrating his death. I've said some things just as abrasive as what Jerry said; will these same people be celebrating when I die? It says a lot, in my opinion.


If I hadn't seen this stuff with my own eyes, I may have been on the other side also. How many times has he apologized for speaking to abruptly? He has. He has admitted to being too abrasive at times. He had regrets. He was genuine. In a day and age when these tele-vangelists are screwing around two men stand head and shoulders above the rest....Billy Graham and Jerry Falwell. Both are/were very committed to their wives and children. These two I have no doubt God raised up. I'm sure he has another in the wings even as we speak.

I believe God is saying "Well done good and faithful servant" to Jerry right now. If you ever get a chance Gid, you need to walk around that campus. Then you will know.

The good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and the evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For out of the overflow of his heart his mouth speaks."


And your point?

Are you holding yourself to what you yourself are quoting here?

on May 16, 2007
And your point?

Are you holding yourself to what you yourself are quoting here?


Whoa. There's no need to attack here.

The fact of the matter is Jerry Falwell was a man like any one of us. I believe that the natural state of the heart is evil. Even if we are Christian, we're still going to screw up, even if we're after the very heart of God.

I'm kinda like this verse in Luke. Sometimes I have good stored up in my heart, and it overflows, but sometimes I have evil in my heart and it overflows. No one's perfect. I don't know much about Mr. Falwell other than his name and his affiliation with Liberty. But I doubt he'd want to be put up on a pedestal and praised like Jesus. He'd want to be seen for who and what he was, and he'd want the glory to be given to God, not to himself.
on May 16, 2007
Whoa. There's no need to attack here.


who said anything about an attack? I'm just asking what she means since she left no explanation.

But I doubt he'd want to be put up on a pedestal and praised like Jesus. He'd want to be seen for who and what he was, and he'd want the glory to be given to God, not to himself.


I agree. I doubt very much being praised like Jesus is going to happen to Jerry. I think you've got him mixed up with Princess Di.

He was very proud of LIberty mostly because he knew Liberty was a gift to and from God himself. He wanted these kids to have a good Christian education and then send off into the world to make it a better place. No drugs, alcohol and no co-ed dorms. He raised the standard for our kids. And for the most part, they raised themselves to it.

on May 16, 2007
The "Are you holding yourself to what you yourself are quoting here?" statement was not necessary.

And I don't have Mr. Falwell mixed up with anyone, thank you.

See...this is why I tend to avoid you, even though we share the same faith, KFC. I'm not saying that I don't do the same things at times, because I know I'm guilty, too. And I hope that if the things I were saying were coming across in a certain manner, I'd want another believer to tell me.

Here's the deal, as I see it anyway. If we publicly profess to be Christians, as you and I both do, then our every letter that we type on here in scrutinized. And also as Christians, we want people to know our Jesus, right?

Tex doesn't believe in God. So...to me, that would mean that I would probably want to show her some extra TLC from above and not say something like you said to her. It's not that she can't handle it, it's just yet another turn-off to our faith for her. And I don't want that. Ideally, I'd love for everyone here at JU to be Christian and know Jesus, and I think that its our job as online Christians to love on these people and get to know them, not knock them down and belittle them.

Sometimes I get the feeling you think you're better than the rest of us because you're so "Christian." Christianity isn't a country club. If I'm not mistaken, Jesus went to the ugliest, the sickest, the poorest, the dumbest people first, not the people who shoved His words down other's throats. We don't have to make people Christians, that's God's job, we just have to love on them.

And as I've typed this, I've just reconvicted myself to do these same things both here on JU and in my real life at work and around town. I tend to have a holier-than-thou attitude sometimes instead of a "how can I love you and serve you?" attitude. And I don't want to do that.

I don't want you to feel attacked, either, but I hope that you'll hear me out on this and think a little bit about it.

And Tex, I hope you didn't mind my example...I'm not gonna try and "convert" you...you've got enough of that stuff.
on May 16, 2007
Ya know, Marcie, I honestly thought that way about KFC when she first came on here(and to be fair, KFC, you do come off that way sometimes. But we've had that discussion before so we'll leave it at that). But I must say that I believe KFC to be sincere, both from conversations we've had here and elsewhere, and honestly, I saw no attack in her words. It was an honest question.

I love y'all, but there's no reason to make this a spitfight when it doesn't need to be. And yes, I know I'm intervening between two women (thanks, LW...I'll forever have a guilty conscience now...lol!), but I really think this is becoming something it doesn't need to be. But that's just my two cents. Y'all DEFINITELY overpaid THIS time!
on May 16, 2007
KFC: There's nothing to hold myself to...it's a statement. Out of the overflow of the heart, the mouth speaks.

It's a relevant NT Scripture. I'm surprised Scripture offends you.

Marcie: No worries.
on May 16, 2007

Jerry Falwell was a man.  A fallible man that sought to do good based upon his beliefs.  Some of them I do not agree with, and some of this statements made me angry and see the ignorance that sometimes can spring forth from all men.

I will not sit here now and say how he was such a great person.  To some he was/is.  To others, he was an anathema - on par as an object of their hate, as was Reagan.  To the rest, he was a man who was neitehr good nor evil, merely human.

I too do not like the pile on that seemed to take hold upon his death.  I beleive that he tried to be a good man based upon his belief system.  He sometimes suceeded.  He sometime failed.  Pretty much like all people do.

I think you delivered a good Eulogy KFC.  As eulogies are supposed to accentuate the positives of a person's life.  Jerry Falwell was not an evil man.  Some would say he was a bad man.  I think he was a man that made mistakes, but who I do not agree with.  I will never be one who glosses over his mistakes to adorize the man.  I can respect the good he did, without accepting the bad that came along with it. But now is not the time to debate the differences with him.  Let his family and friends bury the man in peace.  We can argue his merits later.

on May 16, 2007

Never really paid JF any attention, except when he was messing up...and even now I can't remember any specifics.

Sounds like he was a good man KFC.  That plenty of good came out of him...I agree no one's perfect and thank God I am not a public figure so my every bad day, bad quote, bad attitude gets national attention. hahaha.

I'm just a little mad I didn't know he gave away free scholarships so easy.  I'd had BOTH my boys hitting baseballs at his house night and day!

on May 16, 2007
I think that its our job as online Christians to love on these people and get to know them, not knock them down and belittle them


I don't think asking someone a question or asking them to explain themselves after leaving a scripture verse with no explanation is going on the warpath Marcie. Actually I think you are looking for something that is not there. I think you're dawing attention in such a manner has done more harm than my just asking TW a question or two.

Tex doesn't believe in God.


That's exactly why I wanted her to explain her questionable comment.

Sometimes I get the feeling you think you're better than the rest of us because you're so "Christian."


Why would you think that? I've never ever said such a thing. In fact I think I made that quite clear in my blog Why I believe. So that can't be true. So am I attacking you by asking you to explain this as well? I mean if you'rre going to make statements with no explanation I don't think it's unfair to ask for one. It's funny I'm attacking TW by asking a question and you're telling me I think I'm better than everyone else. And that's a nice thing to say?

I don't want you to feel attacked, either


well, I admit, that's how I took it Marcie. That's how it came across.

KFC: There's nothing to hold myself to...it's a statement. Out of the overflow of the heart, the mouth speaks.It's a relevant NT Scripture. I'm surprised Scripture offends you.


well I'm just wondering why you would put that down especially after some of the things you've said about the man yourself. And most certainly scripture doesn't offend me. But one who doesn't believe in it and quoting it only for the sole person to take down another person does offend me. I'm not angry with you TW. It's good to reason these things out.

I'm still unclear as to why you quoted that. What evil did he expouse? What evil are you exactly talking about? I mean I really want to know. It's easy to just get on board and go after another with the mob mentality. I have a feeling that you really probably don't know very much about this man as I didn't until I saw things with my own eyes and discounted alot of what the media portrayed. That, and knowing that Jerry's mouth sometimes got the best of him. He admitted that. His heart was for God and for the people but he was really strong against what was taking us down as a people group, what was drawing us away from God.

Never really paid JF any attention, except when he was messing up...and even now I can't remember any specifics.


That's it Tova! You've actually got it here I think. I too was like that until I went down there and put fact in place of what I perceived the man to be according to the media's view of him. It's like the media loved to kick him around. They never told you the rags to riches story about Lynchburg and the amazing story of the birth of that college. He went against the mainstream. He, as a Christian, went up against what the left is trying to push on us and he had very broad shoulders. He was our soundpiece.

James Dobson, on his show this morning had a special announcement. He said he loved Jerry and was very saddened about his death and that we would miss this man. He said Jerry did some really great things and has changed our country for the better these last 30 years. He also mentioned that Jerry was more attacked than any of the rest of them doing this work and Dobson thought it very unfair. He asked Jerry about this one time and told him he felt guilty that he was the one who was so maligned. Jerry replied cheerfully that it was ok. He was doing what God wanted him to do. Dobson went on to say that we never heard Jerry whine or complain but instead he always had a cheerful demeanor through all the unfairness he was dealt by the media. I thought about that. He was right. Jerry never got mad or lost it. He always took the brunt of it cheerfully and honorably.

Jerry Falwell was not an evil man. Some would say he was a bad man.


I think you either loved him or hated him. He was strong in his opinion and he had a strong stance on things. I mean, how can we love what God loves without hating what God hates? He had the gift of prophecy. Nobody likes prophets especially those to whom the prophet is addressing. Prophets are forthright and nothing will sway them to go away from the message of God. I think of the weeping prophet (Jeremiah) who wanted to run away from the work of God because it was so darn hard. He gave this despondant prayer:

"O Lord you have deceived me and I was deceived; you are stronger than I and have prevailed. I am in derision daily every one mocks me. For since I spoke, I cried out. I cried violence and spoil; because the word of the Lord was made a reproach to me and a derision daily. Then I said, I will not make mention of him, nor speak any more in his name. (I QUIT). But his word was in my heart as a burning fire shut up in my bones and I was weary with forbearing and I could not stay." 20:7-9.

Basically he was saying the more I obey you the more problems I have here. The people hate me. They want to do me harm. But in the end Jeremiah knew he had to speak up. He was so compelled.

I completely understand this mentality.