Anybody want a dog?
Published on October 5, 2006 By KFC Kickin For Christ In Pets & Nature
What a dog I have!! He's the type that you read about in Reader's Digest after being buried in someone's back yard. In this case it could be titled, "My Dog Quincy, A Dog You Hate to Love" Everyone should have at least one dog like this in their lifetime. If for no other reason, it gives you something to talk about. When he's not in trouble, he's the most loveable dog you'd ever met. He's loved by everyone who meets him. He's loaded with personality and he smiles when he gets in trouble. It's hilarious.

He is always getting in trouble. That's the problem. He's got a type A personality for sure. He's a hound mix, possibly mixed in with Lab but can't be sure and is about 55 lbs. We went to the shelter in 2000 and picked him out. Oh wait, let me clarify. I picked out a dog named Ginger. It was my husband who picked Quincy, a dog about a year old. Later he blamed it on my pressuring him since it was March with tax season more than a little underway. He said he was bleary eyed and not capable of making a dog life decision quite like this. But hey, once I committed to this pet, no turning back for me. Quincy came very close to going back more than once and would have, had I not been around to save his sorry butt more than once. No wonder he loves me so much.

We should have known!! On the way home that first day, he threw up in my husband's car. Within a day we figured out he had separation anxiety which meant leaving him alone was not a good idea. He followed me around the house constantly laying at my feet. I swear he wouldn't sleep for fear I'd leave him. I found out really quickly that we had a problem dog when I came home from shopping one day and found the house in shambles especially the patio door and window grill inserts. They were not only on the floor scattered about but also many of them were broken, chewed up. Seems as tho our lonely pooch was trying to get out of the house. I consulted a vet. He gave me a video and said there are drugs available but that I could possibly, with work, train him out of this.

So we had to figure out what we were going to do. Most of the time we'd try to have someone home with him at all times but that was not going to work forever. I remember one day tying him to the porch with a nice long chain only to find him running around hours later when I got home with this long chain still around his neck. We started calling him Houdini Dog. Many chains later, we got a nice heavy duty long one, and eventually started to tie him in the garage leaving the garage door open. It's like a big dog house. He's got a bed, food and water and if he pees, so what? It's a garage floor. We're all happy with this arrangement now.

One of the signs of a dog with separation anxiety is they pee and crap on the floor. This happened so many times I cannot count. Most of the time tho he did this in the cellar. He's peed just about on every tool, paint can, wall, or ladder that he could find down there. One time he managed to pee in a can of nails. My husband was furious. Each time there was a threat to send him back. Alot of times this would happen at night so we tried to tie him up. In the very beginning we made a structure out of scrap wood and tied him to it. He peed on it. He'd bark and cry so that didn't work well. Nothing worked well until we finally got a crate for him but only used it at night. After a few nights he acclimated to it very well and that helped tremendously. He still did his thing" on occasion if we left him alone for too long, but for the most part there was "relief" in more ways than one.

Within the first few weeks of his arrival here, he met a porcupine and a skunk, not on the same day but close enough. He had and still does have the run of the yard. I never had to worry about him taking off. He wouldn't leave us. We live at the end of a dirt road surrounded by woods. We couldn't get rid of him if we tried. The porcupine incident happened in the middle of a meeting I had here at the house. It was dusk and the dog came in with about 47 needles sticking all over his face and paws. It was hilarious cuz he seemed a bit stunned not knowing what to think and just kept walking around. I still get comments about that six years later. Boy that was work taking those quills out. We pulled everyone out, to the vet's surprise, with a good pair of pliars. It was one tool I don't think he ever peed on btw.

One day I came home to discover he peed on my husband's jeans way up on the second floor in our bedroom. He's not allowed up stairs. While up there he helped himself to the cat's food in the upstairs bathroom. Another day, I came home and found he had trapped himself in my son's bedroom upstairs somehow shutting the door on himself. Again he managed to wipe out the cat food before locking himself in. The rug by the door was all dug up, shredded actually and many scratches were found on the nicely stained solid wood door trying to get out. Wonderful. What else could he possibly do? So I started blocking the entry to the upstairs if I left him alone in the house especially on bitterly cold days.

This was now the second door he scratched up. When we first got him and recognized his anxiety, we left him in the cellar with all he needed thinking that would be best. We thought the worst thing he could do was use the cellar as his personal toilet. Wrong. Oh he did do that and more. We came home to find much damage to the cellar door leading into the kitchen. Another d solid wood door added to the pile of things to fix. Deep scratches on this one.

Another time a friend of mine watched him for the day and put him back in the garage where he's most comfortable. I had specifically told her not to shut the garage door. Well she did. She thought it was cold and windy and that would be better for him. NOT!! I came home to see fine scratches all over my new car where he tried to jump up to see out the window. He also did some damage to the garage door where the rubber seal was on the door. Another job for my husband to do. By this time alot of griping was being done by my sweet husband. He said all he did was fix what destructo dog was doing and he kept threatening to take him back to the shelter. Of course I'd remind him that it was HE who picked out this dog. It wasn't my first pick.

Everytime Quincy would get in trouble and we'd scold him, he'd drag his butt, literally on the floor, to us trying to smile the whole time leaving little pee spots along the way. It's all I can do to not laugh. My husband would say, "it's not funny." But you can't help it. It's a riot. He only did such things when he was left alone. The rest of the time destructo dog was more like delightful dog.

About two years ago he developed a fear of thunder storms. Great. Another problem. He starts to pace, then pant, then look for some place to crawl under, usually my legs if I'm sitting down in a chair or he just follows me around. One day this summer I was not expecting a storm and had left him on the screen porch, another place he likes. The storm came, he panicked and busted out of the screen porch. When I got home, no Quincy. I called and called for him and had to finally call the vet, the shelter and the dog catcher. The next day I got a call from a woman who had found him two miles from my home on a somewhat busy road. He was in the middle of the road, in the middle of the storm looking at every car that went slowly by. He was looking for my car she said. She scooped him up. She said he got right in. She also said if she didn't find his owner she decided to keep him.

This was the second time he ran away. The first time was about a year earlier. My neighbor who loves Quincy and usually has him over for dinner as well as sleepovers was watching him while we were away. My son came home. So David now was supposed to have dog duty. A storm hit the area and Quincy was out. Evidently the neighbors were not home and David was not paying attention and Quincy ran away looking for another human body to hide under. When I got home two days later no one had noticed him gone. David thought the neighbors had him and the neighbors thought David had him. Great. I called everyone I knew and nobody had seen him. Finally called the vet in town and they said they had a dog of his description. They were going to take him to the shelter but he was shaking so badly they didn't think he'd do well with all the commotion of a shelter. An aide found him in the middle of the road in a thunderstorm. I had to prove he was my dog. One of the ladies at the vet's decided to keep him. She thought he was just the most polite dog she'd ever seen. It's just that loveable personality that gets ya.

This is the irony of it all. He's well behaved and will do everything you tell him to when he's around you. Everyone that has had him over loves him. I never need to ask others to take him when we go on vacation. He has a long list of people who actually ask if they can have him when we go away. He understands everything you tell him. He doesn't need to be leashed, ever. The only time he's run away was during those two storms, and it was to look for us.

Everytime we leave him with someone when we go away they always gush over how well behaved he is and that they'd love to have him again. It never fails that my husband offers to give them Quincy. They think he's joking. He's not. He's still repairing the damage that's been done in the last six years. He says that's all he does. Fix Quincy's messes.

Last night. We called for him before we went to bed. He's usually right on the steps waiting for us. He wasn't there. No storm. No dog. A bit unusual. Great. Now what? We opened the garage door in case he was in there by mistake. No dog came out as we opened it from the house. We went to bed. I couldn't sleep but like I said, we can't seem to lose him. I prayed for him thinking he's out there somewhere. It was a warm night and he had eaten. I'll make the calls in the am I thought. We got up. No Quincy. Now I was worried, so I started to pray that we'd find him once again, safe and sound.

My husband went out to the garage to bring out trash and found him in the car. He had jumped thru the window of my husband's car and couldn't get back out. More griping. Seems as tho Quincy, getting a bit older, had some trouble just leaping in thru the window. He left quite a few scratches all over the door under the window in his attempt to get in for some unknown reason. He's never done that before.

Will this ever end? My husband's new plan? To NOT pick the dog up from my mom's after we go away on vacation next month. She's next in line for having Quincy over. She may be getting more than she bargained for.

A Dog named Quincy. A Dog you hate to love.









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on Oct 05, 2006
Poor Puppy!  I understand your husbands frustration, but all he wants is to love and be loved.
on Oct 05, 2006
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on Oct 05, 2006
awww poor quincy he's a pain but he's adorable
on Oct 05, 2006
Oh my goodness. This is exactly why I DON'T have a dog. hahahahahah.

One pee on the carpet and that'd be all she wrote. heh.

But I know most dog lovers really love their dogs. I kinda wish I could love a dog like that...then I read something like this and nah!
on Oct 05, 2006
awww poor quincy he's a pain but he's adorable


you know it Ruby because he loves you to pieces.

One pee on the carpet and that'd be all she wrote.


he peed on the carpet once and that was when he hit the jeans upstairs, there was some spillover...so to speak . For the most part the rest of his draining has been done on the unfinished basement floor....thank goodness.

My last dog was PERFECT. As far as I knew, Cote never went to the bathroom.....ever. Never saw evidence anywhere. He went off into the woods to do his business. Never chased cars or barked like Quincy does. Just laid on the porch and watched them go by. He had a type B personality...unlike Quincy.

Oh and I didn't tell you about the time when my neighbor (the one that loves Quincy) ran him over last winter. When she and her boys come home after school he loves to chase her into her driveway and welcome them home barking the whole time. He does this every day. She was pulling into her driveway across the street and heard a bump. "Oh my God", she said, "we just ran over Quincy." He slipped on the ice in his zeal and slid under her car. No injuries but he was a bit sore for a day or two, not wanting us touch his hip area for the rest of that day.

Just another mishap among many in the life of Quincy Dog.



on Oct 06, 2006
what's the matter kfc...too good for me...globalrunner.joeuser.com
on Oct 06, 2006

Eek!  You just let the pup run around the neighborhood and chase the neighbors cars?  And you could actually go to bed without knowing where he was?  Poor pup.

Dogs with separation anxieties do best when crate trained, have you ever tried it with him?

 

on Oct 06, 2006
Dogs with separation anxieties do best when crate trained, have you ever tried it with him?


yes, and I put that in the main body of my article. That helped tremendously. He sleeps in the crate at night still.

Eek! You just let the pup run around the neighborhood and chase the neighbors cars?


we only have one neighbor directly across the street....maybe 50 yards. He goes back and forth between the two homes. He sits on their deck using his paw to knock on their window and they always let him in. When I don't see him, I call the neighbor and he's in their home. They have two boys that he loves to play with. The only car he chases is theirs and ours and it's when we come home. He's so excited everytime someone comes home regardless if it's us or them. He's a two family dog for the most part.

Ever consider professional training, for you AND the dog?


It never fails. Do you ever have anything nice to say? Didn't your mother teach you better manners?

And you could actually go to bed without knowing where he was? Poor pup.


Did you read what I wrote? The last time he went missing off the porch, I called everywhere and had to wait for a day when the lady called that had taken him in. That night before I stayed up until 4 am worried sick. I was exhausted for two days after that. Twice he ran away because of the thunder and both times he was taken in. He's a very loveable friendly dog and it's very hard NOT to take him in. I had faith this third time that He was in good hands. Come to find out, he was in our car in the garage. So what would staying up do for me at midnight?



on Oct 06, 2006
seems like alot of people missed half your article.... lol.
on Oct 07, 2006
LW,

Obviously you are very knowledgeable about animals and I am so very lacking.....at least according to you. I have had animals all my life....and they all have lived to very old ages being cared for in a very loving home. You have no idea what you are saying.

Your dislike for me is not news......there is no surprise here. You have not tried to leave me alone, from where I stand, and your needless badgering is getting very old. It doesn't matter what I say, you will always take the opposite stand...always. I've repeatedly asked you to keep away from here, and you stubbornly refuse. I leave you alone, I ask for the same favor.

Your question was insulting to me which you intended it to be. Don't try to say otherwise. Your tone and your contentious attitude is increasingly constant.

I was in contact with a vet about the separation anxiety and I mentioned that. Remember we took him out of a shelter. We gave him a home.

Yes, she did Karma, and abused the method to the point where the dog is soiling itself.


how'd you figure? I said after crate training, most of it stopped. He NEVER relieved himself INSIDE the crate...EVER. The crate stopped him from pacing at night and going to the bathroom on the floor. His occasional still going on the floor was when we left him alone in the house DURING the day and depending on the circumstances, it could be as little as two hours. There's a reason for this....all knowing LW, would you happen to know why? Pray tell, tell me if you do.

BTW...I said very clearly, WE ONLY USED THE CRATE AT NIGHT. That's approximately 8 hours if that. Your reading comprehension needs work LW. I see you say that to others. Maybe you need to heed the same advice?

YOU ASSUME THE WORST LW. Why? Because it's me that's why.

And then you brag about pulling them out with pliers?


The VET suggested this. He gave us a choice. We could go ahead and try or he'd meet us at the office and he'd pull them out. I'm sorry if our ability to do this without help bothers you so. If it's too much for you to handle then by all means, take your pooch to the vet. We did it the way we thought best and had no problems. The dog was not showing signs of stress or pain. Only when we took them out of his paws did he get touchy. Geesh what do you suppose happened in the old days before the instant availability of a Vet?

This is just another comment from you to show you have no objectivity at all in your opinions. Your hate is showing here and for what? Wrong assumptions, you have made!!



on Oct 07, 2006
geesh. things are gettin all heated up over here. it was an article about a dog for crying out loud!
get over it people.
the constant need for everyone to be right and hear there own voice never ceases to amaze me. especially on ju. everybody thinks they're right and everyone else is wrong. and then there are some that feel the need to completely barge in and force their own opinions on people on sites that aren't even their own.
it's very sad to see people that have never even met each other have such disdain for one another. you don't even know each other. this is the freaking internet!! get over it and go live in the real world for awhile, especially lw and kfc, who take this whole blogging thing a little too seriously. it's an option to deal with people on the internet. don't complain when you don't need to be a part of it anyway. it's not real life. it's virtual. cyberspace.
why waste so much energy on all of this, when it could be put to better use elsewhere in your real life?? please tell me...
on Oct 07, 2006
geesh. things are gettin all heated up over here. it was an article about a dog for crying out loud!


yes it's only a blog about a dog. No, it's about more than that. LW uses every opportunity to come onto my blog to tear me apart. I do not do the same. I've asked her repeatedly to calm it down, and she refuses.

I have not said the unkind things to her as she has me and I do not disdain her as she does me. She's made it clear. I have not. I too, want and have requested her badgering to stop. To date, no success.

So, Serious, what would you do in a case like this?

on Oct 08, 2006
i think the point was that you're WASTING so much energy (both of you) with this optional banter and fighting. you don't know the person in real life, you don't talk to them, heck you don't even need to coexist with one another, so quit complaining about each other and move on. find something else to do with your time other than insult each other.
how many hours a week do you waste doing this? it's all pointless. none of these people really know you. sure writing is a nice relaxing thing, but if it gets frustrating, WHY DO IT?
it's not that complicated.
but it must be kind of complicated because the reason you both continue in this is beyond me.......
i think it's childish. but that's just my opinion.
that's the last peep from me.
i'm off to do something more productive with my time than sit at the computer defending myself against people i will never meet.
on Oct 09, 2006
little-whip....you're a moron.
on Oct 09, 2006
no really, get off the computer, go get your GED. Consider that your professional trainiing. Just reading what you have to say makes me dumber. So my advice to you is to get your fat butt off the couch and do something with your life. The thing I hate most in life is fat, dumb, females who have nothing to do then insult people. I mean who asks someone if they need a proffesional counselor for thier dog. What you need is for someone to hold you by the shirt and smack you in the head. WOW...what an idiot.
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