So it looks like the abstinence-only crowd was right after all.
An experimental abstinence-only program can delay teens from having sex according to a new scientific study done over the course of the last two years. This is the first rigorous research done showing success with an abstinence only approach. This study helped sixth and seventh graders list the pros and cons to early sexual behavior among other assignments attached to the program.
The parents of the mostly 12 year olds had four options to choose from. They could choose abstinence only classes, safe-sex classes, classes that include both approaches or classes that dealt in health and well being only.
Two years later only about 1/3 of the students engaged in sexual behavior from the abstinence only classes in comparison to 49% in each of the other three groups. Very interesting.
When my children were in school, we had no such options. We only had the option to opt them out of the sex-ed portion of the health class. A few of us chose that option and at least once I withdrew my son entirely from the program all together along with a few others because of their radical sex-ed program.
The critics of the abstinence only programs have certainly been challenged with this news. The advocacy groups favoring abstinence only programs said it shows the Obama administration's decision to move away from any funding of these types of programs is misguided. Maybe in light of this news, their decision should be re-evaluated.
For me the question has always been why so critical of these abstinence programs? Why not encourage our kids to do the right thing? Why encourage them to do what everyone else is doing? Dare to be different. Why the animosity? I've seen it up close and personal in school board meetings over this issue. It can get quite heated.
I think it would be wonderful to include these four options listed to everyone. Continue to monitor the results. I think many would be surprised at the results. Why aren't we doing this now? Why is it only one-sided?
This reminds me of what I saw on GMA last Monday. During one of their spots they showed Oprah interviewing Bristol Palin alongside her mother Sarah. Bristol had just announced she was going to abstain from sex until marriage acknowledging her past mistake in not doing so resulting in early teen pregnancy. Oprah, after a few minutes of grilling Palin over her decision, made a flippant remark saying "good luck with that, hope it works for ya." She was obviously not pleased with Palin's decision. Why? Why the anger?
Hosts Robin and George both remarked they thought Oprah could have been more encouraging to this young woman for making a good decision. I don't think they understood Oprah's animosity here either.
The same day Oprah had Rosie O'Donnell on her show. During this interview Rosie announced that she and her lesbian lover had split up with four children in the mix. She also announced that she has a new lover who has six more children evidently from her past relationship. I couldn't believe how encouraging and affirming Oprah was to Rosie in the merging of these 10 children with who knows how many moms and no dads involved after she subtly bashed Bristol that very morning on her decision to abstain until marriage.
Am I missing something?