Telling Others It's All About You
Published on August 31, 2009 By KFC Kickin For Christ In Religion

Globablly, we are heading south at a rapid rate of speed and nothing is going to stop us this time.  I believe the time is close.  Believers and non believers alike are sensing something is about to happen all over the world.  Christ said in the last days the love of many would wax cold.  I'm sensing that today. 

For years in our country, we've watched silently as our freedoms erode around us as link by link the shackles are being clamped on.  We are no longer considered the land of the brave and the free we once were.  We are a society of over indulgent, self seeking, complaining spoiled brats who want nothing else but to get our own way.  It's all about me and what I want.  It's all about now.   Our excessive living has weakened us, not made us stronger.  We have become dependant on material things while we abuse people who dare get in our way. 

It should be the other way around.  We should use things and cherish people but I'm afraid we have been duped into thinking it's ok to cherish things and use people. 

Look at the scandals all around us.   A day doesn't go by and yet another leader or hero falls into this trap of excessive living bringing himself down as well as those around him.  Presidents, Governors, Preachers, Coaches, Football players and the list goes on.  Those who should be leading us are stealing from us instead whether it be in the form of money, adultery or even our trust.  Those in leadership positions who should be taking care by being good examples are instead no more than goats in sheep's clothing seeking to devour any who get in their way.   Whatever happened to a good name should be protected and is worth more than gold and silver? 

Last week in just a normal conversation with two strangers I met at an open house, I could see how brainwashed we've become in the  "it's all about me society."

We were talking and one thing led to another and I mentioned the fact that my husband and I were at a crossroads trying to make a decision on our next move.  That may mean packing up and moving out of our beautiful new home.  Yes, we are very comfortable and thought this would be it.  Yes, we have it made in the shade as some would say but we are not quite content because we are waiting on God's next marching orders wondering if we should sell and move along.  I'm not totally fond of this idea, but if it's God, who am I to say no?

I told the two ladies that it quite possibly is God moving us out of our comfort zone to give it all up for others. If so, we need to be willing to go.   

Well one of these ladies with a bit of a scornful look on her face said "well you have to do what is right for you first."  I kindly explained to her that the decision we're mulling would indeed be a sacrifice but one we're willing to make if we know it's from God.  The best place to be in all the world is the center of God's will.  I told her that the way I look at it from a Chrisitian POV is that it's God first, me second.  To serve God means to serve others before yourself.   She had no reply but her companion agreed with this outlook. 

Think about it.  What a different place this world would be if we all took the time to put others ahead of ourselves.  Instead of stealing from one another, we would be giving.  Instead of committing adultery on our spouses we would be honoring our commitments, strengthening our families instead of destroying them.  Instead of taking advantage of others we would rather choose to be great examples for those in our pathway instead of bringing shame to our community, our state and our country by violating that trust. 

We've been sold a soggy bill of goods thinking that we can be happy by heaping upon ourselves more and more and more stuff stepping on others to get it.  When in fact, the real joy comes in helping others and being "other minded" rather than self seeking. 

Yesterday the sermon at church was on doing ALL things without complaining or grumbling.  We read this:

"Do everything without complaining or arguing in that you may become blameless and harmless without fault in a crooked and depraved generation..."  Philip 2:14-15

The world being crooked means it's out of proper alignment.  The word crooked comes from the Greek word "Skolios" where we get scoliosis from.  It means "curved, bent, winding" and metaphoricaly means "crooked, perverse, unjust" or "unscrupulous; dishonest" and can also be translated "warped." 

Get the picture?   Doesn't this explain our world today?  It's out of alignment.  As a Christian I have to ask myself, am I helping the world for the better or for the worse? 

So we have to ask ourselves, what kind of advertisement are we?  There's nothing like an improper road sign.  It can potentially have devestating effects.  It can give the wrong direction.  

When we complain and grumble,  aren't we showing a negative attitude and rejecting God's will?  We need to keep that in mind when we hold up our sign of complaining in front of others.  Aren't we giving the wrong message?  Doesn't God say to be blameless and harmless for the sake of others?  For the sake of the world? 

Yes.  Afterall when it's all said and done, we have to live with ourselves and the directions we gave.  One day we will meet our creator and all becomes visible in the light.  Everything is made visible...every little thing. 

It's time we make sure the road sign we're holding is pointing in the right direction. 

 

 


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on Aug 31, 2009

What you're seeing today is business as usual. 

A lot of people suck...they've always sucked and they'll continue sucking.  You look on the past with nostalgia, but stuff like this has always happened- scandal, crime, war...yadda, yadda, yadda. 

The reason it seems so much worse is that we're constantly bombarded with images of it from the media.  Back in the day these things were kept under wraps or not reported as often or as constantly.  Something has to fill those 24 hour news cycles and people love watching other people fall from grace.

 

Don't get too excited for the Rapture just yet.  Every generation of Christians expect it.  Ain't one of'em been right yet.

~Zoo

on Sep 01, 2009

For years in our country, we've watched silently as our freedoms erode around us as link by link the shackles are being clamped on.  We are no longer considered the land of the brave and the free we once were.  We are a society of over indulgent, self seeking, complaining spoiled brats who want nothing else but to get our own way.  It's all about me and what I want.

You are contradicting yourself.

Your society is either becoming more free and hence more people are capable of getting their way, or your society is becoming less free and hence fewer people will get what they want.

American society has become more free with every decade. You never were the land of the brave and the free in the romantic sense. But you might become it.

What Washington fought for is not the same as what he achieved. For a hundred years the "land of the free" was one of the even then few remaining countries that practiced slavery. And for even longer than that the "land of the brave" fought wars against the substantially less-well armed Indians who were also of smaller number than the white enemy.

The "land of the brave" materialised first in World War 1, and the "land of the free" materialised first in World War 2

Freedom and bravery is something to aspire to, not something to be proud of.

And traditionally freedom is not lost bit by bit or step by step but all at once in a single movement supported by a majority of people.

 

on Sep 01, 2009

I have to agree with Zoo, this is business as usual, it's just that todays technology allows for the Media to broadcast the stories in a wide range of communication forms such as 24 hour TV news channels, news websites, emails, portable computers such as laptops, cellphones and ipods and even social websites such as twitter, facebook, myspace and blogging sites where regular people pass the stories forwards and in many cases tweak it to their point of view.

Oddly enough we get much more details today than we did before but now we have to work twice as hard to sift thru all of it to find the real facts and make an educational opinion on the stories. Most people just take the first thing they hear and run with it cause they too lazy to verify and get mad when you contradict them.

We are a resilient nation, we may be down right now but we are not out and  believe we will bounce back. Maybe all this information may actually help clean up some of the messes we have created thru out the years.

on Sep 01, 2009

Another example of religious zeal clouding judgment.

on Sep 01, 2009

this is business as usual, it's just that todays technology allows for the Media to broadcast the stories in a wide range of communication forms such as 24 hour TV news channels, news websites, emails, portable computers such as laptops, cellphones and ipods and even social websites such as twitter, facebook, myspace and blogging sites where regular people pass the stories forwards and in many cases tweak it to their point of view.

no, not really.  I keep refuting this type of thing. You're being fed a lie as far as it's always been like this.  All you have to do is look in your own neighborhood.  Forget the news.  Once we were able to sleep in peace with our doors unlocked.  Try doing that today and see if you can get a decent night's sleep. 

Technology brings both good and evil like everything else.  Some use it for good; some for evil.  Technology can be very helpful in helping the evil ones to accomplish their evil deeds quickly and at a larger scale. 

In today's paper...and I'll quote from a woman who just turned 101...

"I think we respected family more than people do today.  People were friendly.  You knew your neighbors.  We never thought of putting up fences around our home.  We were one big family." 

Today many don't even know their neighbors.  Respect was common and decent; a way of life.  Today it's unheard of.  Kid's don't respect authority whether it be parents, teachers, police etc.  There is no respect anymore. 

Don't get too excited for the Rapture just yet. Every generation of Christians expect it. Ain't one of'em been right yet.

In a very very loose way I happen to agree with you because I know the bible gives out certain signs to watch out for first.... but....and I've heard this before ad nausem and take it as scoffing...do you not know by saying this you are proving the scriptures to be right?  "there will be scoffers in the last day who say "where is his coming?" 

We are supposed to expect it; every generation of christians have been told to look for the return of Christ and we have for the last 2,000 years.  But many have overlooked the "signs" of the times that He gave us (Matt 24-Revelation 6).  The greatest sign is Israel coming into their own land ( the fact that the Jews just being here period is the greatest testimony of all).  A rapture will not take place until then.  After that will be the coming of the A.C.  Hasn't happened yet. 

Have you heard the latest news on this?  Their are more Jews now living in Israel than ever in the history of Israel.  There are for the first time more Jews in Israel than the United States.  And...many Jews in the U.S. taking a good look at our country are going back to their homeland.  Just as predicted would happen 2500 years ago despite all the nay sayers over the years who never believed that the Jews would have their own homeland. 

The next thing is the world going global.  It's not just a coincidence that everything is about globalism today.   Kingdom of the Anti-Christ is all about globalism..a one world order..one world government.  It's been like that since the Tower of Babal in Genesis 11.  We are heading that way again.   America has to be brought down for this to become a reality.  We've been way above for too long and we have to be brought low first to be on a level playing ground with the rest of the world AFTER helping Israel come into their own country. 

I don't think it's a coincidence we are talking about a world epidemic right now even knowing that there has been past epidemics but not like this one.   I believe that is just another sign in the whole order of things. 

While I believe the rapture is close and we should be expectant, I don't think it's imminent because there are still some other signs that haven't happened yet. 

 

 

 

on Sep 01, 2009

You are contradicting yourself. Your society is either becoming more free and hence more people are capable of getting their way, or your society is becoming less free and hence fewer people will get what they want.

Not really.  When someone gets their way it means others don't.  So both come into play. 

For instance, I no longer am free to drive without my seatbelt.  Someone(s) wanted that law enacted and it was put into effect.  I lost my freedom to choose but someone else got their name on a bill.  With more and more laws there are less and less freedoms. 

The latest news about that creep who kidnapped the young girl is another example of someone getting his way at the expense of another.  Where was her freedom in that situation?  He got his way in having an 11 year old sex slave.  How free was she? 

How about that Govenor in N. Carolina who wanted to fulfill his sexual desire by committing adultery on his wife and thereby destroying his family that included four sons?  He wanted his way, and took it at the expense of his family. 

Last night on Dateline they did the whole hour on Steve McNair the football player who was found murdered in the company of his adulterous girlfriend while his wife was home with their two sons. 

He was free to commit adultery (many times) on his wife.  She certainly didn't have her way in this situation nor did her boys.  She doesn't have her husband anymore and they don't have a father.  All because someone decided to take their daddy's life.  That certainly isn't being other minded now is it (which is what this blog is about)?  His freedom in getting his way cost something.  Not only did it cost him his life, but it forever changed the lives of his family because he was so self centered he didn't think about them and how this would effect them. 

So while we are free in one aspect; to do evil and eventually pay the consequences, most often it means enslaving another in one way or another along the way. 

 

 

on Sep 01, 2009

Another example of religious zeal clouding judgment.

and another example of a one liner with nothing to back it up with. 

on Sep 01, 2009

Something has to fill those 24 hour news cycles and people love watching other people fall from grace.

now here's something Zoo I can agree with you whole heartedly on.  People feed off other's misery and discomfort.  Maybe because in some sense it makes them feel better about themselves thinking I'm not as bad as they are. 

on Sep 01, 2009

Hello KFC,

We've finally arrived in Florida, but no where near settled yet! Today, I'm using my son's computer.

 

A Crooked And Perverse Generation

Globablly, we are heading south at a rapid rate of speed and nothing is going to stop us this time.

zoo posts

What you're seeing today is business as usual. A lot of people suck...they've always sucked and they'll continue sucking. You look on the past with nostalgia, but stuff like this has always happened- scandal, crime, war...yadda, yadda, yadda. 

charlescs posts:

I have to agree with Zoo, this is business as usual,

Me too. It's Modernism relativistic morals and ethics that are holding sway.

 

KFC WROTES:

I believe the time is close. Believers and non believers alike are sensing something is about to happen all over the world. Christ said in the last days the love of many would wax cold. I'm sensing that today.

ZOO POSTS:

Don't get too excited for the Rapture just yet. Every generation of Christians expect it. Ain't one of'em been right yet.

Good point, Zoo. 

 

 

 

 

on Sep 01, 2009

For years in our country, we've watched silently as our freedoms erode around us as link by link the shackles are being clamped on.

For sure.

Ever since the 60's, while the people sleep, their unalienable rights of life and  liberty of speech and association are under attack.

 

on Sep 01, 2009

no, not really. I keep refuting this type of thing. You're being fed a lie as far as it's always been like this. All you have to do is look in your own neighborhood. Forget the news. Once we were able to sleep in peace with our doors unlocked. Try doing that today and see if you can get a decent night's sleep.

KFC,

With all due respect here if anyone is being fed anything it's you; you're the one going to church listening to someone else preach Gods word to you. I lived that life where one could go to slepp with the doors and windows open, that does not negate the fact that people still did bad things back then almost as much as now. We may have an increase in crime and bad behavious these days but that can relate to the changes in our society both technological and in size. Sleeping with open doors is something we still do in Puerto Rico even though crime is up over there. I don't spend the whole night worrying about my car being stolen or someone breaking into my apt.

I do admit I think our society has some serious problems, but I don't think this is the end of the human race in a biblical manner. As Zoo said every generation believed and believes the end is on their watch. If anything The Maya's predicted the world would end in 2012, before this it was suppose to end in the year 2000 between the 666 being 999 upside down and the y2k glitch. If there is one thing humans have shown thru out the centuries is that we are resilient. 2 World Wars, several smaller but almsot as bad wars, an atomic bomb and even terrorist attacks and yet the world still spins and people still drink Dunkin Donuts and eat Pizza Hut.

Technology brings both good and evil like everything else. Some use it for good; some for evil. Technology can be very helpful in helping the evil ones to accomplish their evil deeds quickly and at a larger scale.

Without one the other can not exist. By the same token Technology can be very helpful in helping good ones to accomplish their good deeds quickly and at a large scale. Just take your article for example.

In today's paper...and I'll quote from a woman who just turned 101... "I think we respected family more than people do today. People were friendly. You knew your neighbors. We never thought of putting up fences around our home. We were one big family."

In this I agree. We have forgotten what being neighborly is. Still, this only means we have forgotten, not changed or disregarded it entirely.

Today many don't even know their neighbors. Respect was common and decent; a way of life. Today it's unheard of. Kid's don't respect authority whether it be parents, teachers, police etc. There is no respect anymore.

I would not go as far as saying there is no respect anymore. I would say there is respect but just not as common. I respect your beliefs and your opinions just as much as I would think you respect mine. If we are to have absolute beliefs such as no respect "anymore" then I have to question why bother making this point? If you didn't believe there was hope and that things like respect are completely gone  you would not be making articles like this, going to church and praying for others or even bring the word of God to anyone.

I still believe there is hope for a better tomorrow but I accept that we are humans and that it is in our nature to go thru cycles of good and bad where more often than not the good remains and the bad goes away. Considering how far our lending hand can reach these days (across the world) compared to back in the days, I'd say we are much better people now than before.

Lets not also forget that our society today is very different from what it was even a few decades ago when there were less foreign people living here and our culture was supreme. These days our culture has to share space in this land with the multiple cultures from around the world and not all those cultures get along, as sad as it may sound.

on Sep 01, 2009

and another example of a one liner with nothing to back it up with.

Agreed, some people should just stick to reading and not commenting.

on Sep 01, 2009

We've finally arrived in Florida, but no where near settled yet! Today, I'm using my son's computer.

so how do you like it so far?  Did you know they had frost in Maine and NH already?  Winter's on the way already. 

I do admit I think our society has some serious problems, but I don't think this is the end of the human race in a biblical manner. As Zoo said every generation believed and believes the end is on their watch. If anything The Maya's predicted the world would end in 2012, before this it was suppose to end in the year 2000 between the 666 being 999 upside down and the y2k glitch. If there is one thing humans have shown thru out the centuries is that we are resilient. 2 World Wars, several smaller but almsot as bad wars, an atomic bomb and even terrorist attacks and yet the world still spins and people still drink Dunkin Donuts and eat Pizza Hut.

no, no, no Charles.  You can't just believe every Tom, Dick and Harry who spouts off a date.  That's not fair.  No reputatable bible believer EVER sets dates.  The 2000 year date was NEVER reputable for instance.  Just because someone spouted off a date...it means nothing. 

Those false teachers are just confusing things.  Who do you think is behind that?  The bible is quite clear with clear signs to watch out for.  Israel coming into their own land.  The temple being rebuilt in Israel (not done yet).  Wars, quakes, famines, diseases and disasters coming with more frequency.  Parents being against thier own children and children their own parents.  Love growing cold.  Another sign is the abundance of false teachers and a falling away from the faith of God.  Another biggie is the one world order that will set the stage for a man of power to take over the whole world..  For the first time in our history we are as close as ever for this to take place.  The world wide web is going to be very instrumental in all this. 

Never before could we say you can't buy or sell without a number like we are getting very close to saying today. 

I would not go as far as saying there is no respect anymore. I would say there is respect but just not as common. I respect your beliefs and your opinions just as much as I would think you respect mine. If we are to have absolute beliefs such as no respect "anymore" then I have to question why bother making this point? If you didn't believe there was hope and that things like respect are completely gone you would not be making articles like this, going to church and praying for others or even bring the word of God to anyone.

Oh I have hope but it's not in man.   My hope is in God and what he's going to bring to man.  I saw a bumper sticker the other day that resonated with me.  It said "NO Jesus; NO Peace."  That pretty much sums it up. 

I wouldn't go so far as to say there is NO respect anymore either...just using hyperbole to get the point across.  I've seen many times on the news these young kids speaking very disrespectfully to the cops who came to question their actions (forget about teachers).  I'm thinking...no way would we have dared to speak like that when we were young.  No way.  If the cop didn't take us in or report us to our parents, our parents would have applied the stars and stripes to our behinds if they got wind of it. 

And there was a time when nobody dared... I mean no one dared to desecrate a church.  Churches never locked their doors.  The fear of God was so strong that to rob a church meant lightening could fall from heaven on you.  Did you hear the latest about the woman pastor who was killed recently in her church in a very despicable manner?   

 

Considering how far our lending hand can reach these days (across the world) compared to back in the days, I'd say we are much better people now than before.

like I said there's always good and bad but as a society, as a whole, I don't know how you get that.  Just look at our corrupt leaders in all areas of leadership.  Are they worse or better than they used to be?  Sports?  Government?  Religion?  That's one way of looking at it.  How about entertainment?  Better now than say the 1940's?   1950's?   

These days our culture has to share space in this land with the multiple cultures from around the world and not all those cultures get along, as sad as it may sound.

True, but that's not what I'm seeing for the most part.  Take yesterday in GA for example.  8 people in one house dead.  Kids killing their parents, parents killing their kids, etc.  We NEVER saw this type of thing in the 230+ years we've been a country like we have in the last 10 years. 

 

on Sep 01, 2009

Maybe because in some sense it makes them feel better about themselves thinking I'm not as bad as they are. 

I think this is why people watch those court shows.

 

8 people in one house dead.  Kids killing their parents, parents killing their kids, etc.  We NEVER saw this type of thing in the 230+ years we've been a country like we have in the last 10 years. 

Of course not. There was no 24-hour coverage of such things back then.

Now we know about these things. That's BETTER. We are better now than we ever were.

 

on Sep 02, 2009

and another example of a one liner with nothing to back it up with.

Ok, how's this? You're a gullible, superstitious moron.

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